Pastor John Gray Admits To Cheating On Wife Aventer

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For the past few weeks I have been hearing some hoopla about Pastor John Gray having cheated on his wife, and that being the “real” reason he bought her that Lamborghini SUV that caused such a ruckus online. As a matter of fact, it was on of y’all, one of my subscribers that first brought it to my attention in a comment. Someone left a comment on my video about him buying his wife a Lamborghini and said something to the effect of “The real issue is not where he got the money from to buy his wife a Lamborghini. The real issue is the fact that he bought the Lamborghini as an apology gift for cheating on her!” I don’t know if that person deleted that comment, but I went looking for it and I could not find it to post it here.

But in any case, it was being alleged that Pastor John Gray had cheated on his wife Aventer, and that’s the reason he was showering her with such an expensive gift in public, because of what he had done privately.

So it makes sense now looking back at the things Pastor John Gray said on Sister Circle about his wife covering him, and waiting for him to grow up, and birthing him as a man. If you listen closely, he wasn’t saying that that’s what a woman should do. But he was pointing out that’s what his wife had to do for him because of what he was doing behind closed doors. Apparently, he was cheating on her before and during their marriage and she covered it up for him because of the call of God on his life.

In this video from June of 2018, Pastor John Gray and his wife Aventer, reveal to their church, Relentless Church, that John cheated on his wife Aventer due to weaknesses in his own life, and that Aventer did indeed confront the woman. Again, according to the Obnoxious Television blog, it was a physical confrontation, but Aventer didn’t get into the details of it in the video, but she does say she confronted her. And she goes on to explain why she stayed with her husband.

I just want to bring this video to your attention because I believe to be a confession. And the Bible does say in 1 John 1:9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Pastor John Gray made this confession the very first Sunday that he preached at Relentless Church as their official Senior Pastor. And he says that this is what God had put on his heart to share with his church. So take a look.

8 thoughts on “Pastor John Gray Admits To Cheating On Wife Aventer

  • January 7, 2019 at 1:41 am

    I’m glad that Pastor Gray went forward and exposed his infidelity. Even more so, I’m very thankful to God for his wife, who first of all had every reason in the world to react the way she did, as she should because her husband cheated on her.
    BUT, what I love is that she went to the Word…she prayed with her husband she went to the Word and confronted the person that was the alleged other party, and she’s not giving the devil any foothold or any victory in this whole situation. The enemy wanted this marriage to end therefore he got involved because he knew that the calling on the Gray’s lives are bigger than he can even fathom. Like you said when you quote a scripture from 1st John, God is faithful to forgive us. We all screw up every day. But we serve a God who doesn’t lie and he is faithful to forgive us, if we confess our sin. I get so tired of Christians or no let me change that, church Folk, who are so busy looking at other people’s “stuff” and they don’t look at their own “stuff”. there’s no such thing as felony and misdemeanor sin. SIN IS SIN. It’s so easy to put someone who’s in front of people on blast then it is for someone to look in the crap going on in their own lives. Folks, leave the Grays alone! They’re doing just fine. If you have a problem with what’s going on in their lives and a problem with the man of God who is in the Pulpit, pray for him. Because we all have to stand before God one day and give an account for what we do. Just us Pastor Gray is going to have to stand before God, those who are running their mouths so much and condemning him for what he’s doing will have to stand before God too… and God does not take excuses or justification for why we said what we said. Because I think the Bible also says Book of John “… let he without sin cast the first stone…” Am I perfect? No am I a sinner just like everyone else on this planet. However I choose to see myself as a sinner saved by grace just like Pastor Gray does and just his wife does. The only thing that anyone should worry about is if the man is preaching the Bible out of context and preaching false Doctrine and leading people astray. If he’s not doing that, there’s nothing else that people should be worried about about pertaining to that man’s life.

    He even said in the interview that he’s going to spend the rest of his life honoring that woman, if that means has to buy her a new car every year or whatever she wants…if that’s what he feels he needs to do? Let the man do it! His wife is that “good thing” that the Bible talks about for him. And he is fully aware that he’s never going to find anyone like that anywhere. PLUS, he’s not using the church’s money to buy her stuff. He gets paid. He has speaking engagements that he goes on and gets paid for those as well. And he’s in full-time ministry as the pastor of that church that he gets paid a salary . He’s doing fine he’s working honestly and earnestly. Let the man live his life please. All of you critics or haters, leave him alone! What’s happening in your life? I don’t want to know, because it’s not my place; that’s between you and God. Life is short, and we don’t know when Jesus is coming back. We need to stop worrying about trivial stuff and other people’s shortcomings and mistakes and get our own houses in order. While you’re busy looking at other people’s houses and peeking in their windows, your house is jacked up. I know mine is jacked up, but I’m working on it every day. My house. I pray that you do the same with your own.

    • January 10, 2019 at 2:59 am

      Amen! Totally agree! Let your light so shine!

      “…the devil is overcome by the blood of the lamb and the word of our testimony”…thank GOD!
      And, “where sin abounds, grace does much more abound!”
      Let’s just stick to the WORD for everything we need, regarding every situation, is available in the WORD!

  • January 7, 2019 at 1:21 pm

    My God! This hit home for me. I’m so grateful this was shared. I feel the power this message gave has given me strength to expose myself to my husband. I know he loves me but need counsel on how to come clean. Blessing on this couple.

  • January 7, 2019 at 5:42 pm

    Ok all u people that is willing to put up with this nonsense how about he have lust of another women on his brain there is the first sin then to act on it. How about he keep his dick to himself and his wife And no she not leaving the money is to great for her to leave and all the people in the church that sit up under this foolishness are just as wrong as he who committed the sin act.Ysll keep sitting up under these fake ass so called pastors listening to the bullcrsp they feeding you for your money instead of listening to GOD they going to put y’all right in HELL.

  • January 8, 2019 at 2:23 am

    It take a MAN to admit his faults which he did publicly. YES forgive him. We All fall short. He without sin cast the first stone.

  • January 14, 2019 at 4:14 pm

    I’m sooo glad this turned out the way it did. Karen Clark with your nasty mouth perhaps you need to find a good Christian church. It’s not always about the money because this happened to me and my man is not rich. It’s truly about love, commitment and dedication. I guess you are alone without a soulmate because you would throw the towel in. The Bible clearly states

    Love Comes from God
    …19We love because He first loved us. 20If anyone says, “I love God,” but hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen. 21And we have this commandment from Him: Whoever loves God must love his brother as well.…

    The Unforgiving Servant
    20For where two or three gather together in My name, there am I with them.” 21Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother who sins against me? Up to seven times?” 22Jesus answered, “I tell you, not just seven times, but seventy-seven times!…

    Please get your soul together so you can enter the pearly gates. Don’t let someone sin define you since they are accounted for their own sins.

  • January 15, 2019 at 12:48 pm

    I am so so upset that this happen we all going through things all the time but we must stay strong I love you in your family I. Hate that someone took you away for a fun time it not worth it ..i have follow you. In ever since I saw you on TV you have motivate me let me understand what prayers would do for you and your family I just hope that this it was a lesson to learn that you would never do this again Mecosta real woman for you is your wife I had a man that cheated on me for years and turn my back hoping that he would love me but it never worked out because I had faith and he didn’t but you to have faith and I know this would work out stay away from other women that will give you the Temptation because they’re all around they always want what you got I just hope that this will keep you strong and not let anyone interfere with your life cuz there are people just out there to destroy your world I am going to pray and hope that you and your family stay strong

  • January 17, 2019 at 8:58 pm

    John Gray u are my favorite preacher I hear on TV I am glue to the TV when i am listening to ur message it help me a lot and u make me and husband laugh but it did hurt when I heard u cheated on ur wife but don’t give up

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